Sometimes you have to take a different path through the woods. Here are a few suggestions of where you should head next.
Vidder Sites
Paper Cup (website for here's luck's multi-fandom music videos, including Buffy, Firefly, and Wonderfalls)
catatonic schizophrenia (website for catatonic's music vids, fanart, and hundreds of incredible icons)
Bittersweet Symphonies (website for Akira Aaron's music vids, as well as being chock-full of links, pics, and other Buffy resources)
Kitze Productions (website for Wendy and F1renze's multi-fandom fannish activities, including music vids, icons, and mood themes)
Luminosity's Vids (website for Luminosity's multi-fandom vids, including Angel, Buffy, Firefly, Highlander, and more!)
Elephant Momentum! (website for Sisabet's multi-fandom vids, including Buffy, Angel, Queer As Folk, Smallville, and more!)
Other Vid Sites
Buffyverse Music Video Database (The premiere Buffy and Angel vid database)
Farscape Fantasy (The premiere Farscape vid database)
VividCon (Convention for Vidders and Vid-watchers)
The Buffinator Awards (Buffy and Angel music video award site)